Number 3 - Ask a guy out on a ‘date’

Ask a guy out...

So I've always been a bit nervous about this and I guess many of us are. It's the art of rejection I've not mastered. So I thought this would be a good idea. What the heck was i thinking?

I have been using tinder for a few months and recently matched with a guy called Shaun (not his real name). We got on and I plucked up the courage (yes via text) to ask him out on a date the following Thursday. Shaun said that he wasn't available that day. That was that. He didn't suggest an alternative day and I was left thinking ouhhh so does this count as asking a guy out? I think so.

Checked.